Forever Strong
Written on February 3, 2010 – 12:51 am | by zacharymiranda1980
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IMDB rating: 6.60 Plot: A talented-but-troubled rugby player must play against the team his father coaches at the national championship. |
Actors: Cole Gary,Faris Sean,McDonough Neal,Astin Sean,Badgley Penn,Ackerman Andrew B.,Ackerman Talon G.,Bagby Larry,Bellows Matthew Flynn,Benjamin Eliot,Bird Ivan R.,Budah Big,Chunga Jimmy,Earl Jeremy,Drama,Sport,
Depressed boyfriend broke up with me, please help!?
Hi, My boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and I would really like some advice. I’m 21 and my boyfriends 25 years old. We have been going out for 5 months and in the beggining it was going well but over the past couple of months he has been more distant, texting me less, giving less affection and doesn’t seem happy. From the start of our relashionship he lived in London and I moved to Portsmouth so we see each other once a week. I think I am nearly in love with him, just hovering on the line and he cares about me but I don’t think anywhere as near. There were not really any problems in the relashionship, we didn’t argue much and everyone says we are really cute together. Although, since he became distant I was worried that he might be hung up on his ex as he gets quite defensive when I ask him about her. However I’m pretty sure its not about that now.
5 years ago, when he was 20, his dad passed away from a heart attack and he was with him when it happened. They were really close and I don’t think he has come to terms with it. He bottles up his emotions and there is something that he feels really guilty about, he says, "It’s what I didn’t do" but he won’t tell me what this is. He shuts down and refuses to speak about it. I told him the first step is to start talking about how he’s feeling but he says no-one can help. I think he is suffering from depression as a lot of what he’s told me are the symptoms of depression. I told him to look at counselling and he said he’ll think about it but I know he’ll never end up doing it.
He broke up with me a couple of weeks ago, saying that he wants to be on his own and do this by himself. I care deeply for him and want to help him through this but after speaking to him again I don’t think there is any way that he will want to get back together. I want to stick by him but at the same time he will always be more than a friend and I won’t be able to cope with being ‘just friends’, it’s just too difficult. I think I will be good for him, to help him through this and come out on the other side stronger together but how do I help him see that he is making a mistake by losing me? I don’t want to move on because it is not over for me yet but I can’t wait around forever as I don’t know how long it will take. Please help!
just tell him what you told us and dont force him into anything. stop nagging him to go to conseling and about his ex….he obviously is over his ex and you’re only asking about her because you think you arent as great as her…so just stop worrying. he needs a positive force. i think seeing him in person again when you tell him will help the most. dont beg, just tell him your reasoning…
sparklefairies | Feb 01, 2010
sorry of the break up but no choice but to move on! Or you will hurt yourself.
The 1 u Ate | Feb 01, 2010
This guy sounds a lot like someone I know. One of two reasons I can think of. Either he finds himself not suited to you and is using excuses to get around hurting your feelings or he just wants to be alone. Either way it sounds like he’s made up his mind. If you ever want to get him back then you have to find a way to make him crave you. And if it’s already been a couple of weeks then you might want to start thinking about moving on with out him.
Eric | Feb 01, 2010
Tags: 2008, Ackerman Andrew B., Ackerman Talon G., Astin Sean, Badgley Penn, Bagby Larry, Bellows Matthew Flynn, Benjamin Eliot, Bird Ivan R., Budah Big, Chunga Jimmy, Cole Gary, Drama, Earl Jeremy, Faris Sean, McDonough Neal, Sport